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It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention, to win you away from a crowd of admirers. To draw your victims closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability-of being wanted and courted by many. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you.Ĥ – Appear to Be an Object of Desire -Create Trianglesįew are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect people gather around those who have already attracted interest. An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle. A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthy, both innocent and cunning. Most of us are much too obvious -instead, be hard to figure out.

What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short-lived in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent.

Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely intrigued, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike. Arrange an occasional “chance” encounter, as if you and your target were destined to become acquainted-nothing is more seductive than a sense of destiny. Haunt the periphery of your target’s life-approach through a third party, or seem to cultivate a relatively neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover. The seduction should begin at an angle, indirectly, so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you. At first there must be nothing of the seducer in your manner. If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. The perfect victim allows for the perfect chase.Ģ – Create a False Sense of Security -Approach Indirectly The strong emotions this quality inspires will help make your seductive maneuvers seem more natural and dynamic. The perfect victim has some natural quality that attracts you. They are often isolated or at least somewhat unhappy (perhaps because of recent adverse circumstances), or can easily be made so-for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce. The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic. Study your prey thoroughly, and choose only those who will prove susceptible to your charms. Everything depends on the target of your seduction.